三月流焱：你随和，生活才会随和

人生是一场博弈，心胸豁达开朗的人，凡事看得高远，生命有止，精神无止；挤不进的世界，不要去硬挤，难为了别人，也是作贱了自己；做不来的事情，不要去硬做，换种思路，也许会事半功倍。

Life is a game, open-minded people, everything is high, life stops, endless spirit; crowded not into the world, do not squeeze hard, difficult for others, but also do cheap yourself; do not do things hard, change the thinking, may get twice the result with half the effort.

年轻的时候时间很多不去努力，老了的时候想努力却抱怨时间不够，不把握当下，以后的每天都会后悔，不如现在拼搏为以后挣个不后悔的机会！

When I was young, I didn't work hard. When I was old, I wanted to work hard but complained that the time was not enough. If I did not grasp the moment, and I would regret it every day. It is better to struggle now to earn a chance without regret in the future!

当你犹豫，无法做决定时，想想自己的目的，过滤掉没必要的担忧。许多事，好的结果，会为你挡掉之前的所有质疑，而过程，只需努力。

When you hesitate and can't make a decision, think about your purpose and filter out unnecessary concerns. Many things, good results, will block all previous doubts, and the process, just effort.

你能扛过比别人更大的难关，就会建立比别人更大的自信。谁有光鲜亮丽的一面，就有不为人知的难堪。你是你自己，别人无法左右你；活得明亮，比什么都重要。

You can overcome greater difficulties than others, you will build greater confidence than others. Who has a bright side, there is an unknown embarrassment. You are yourself, others cannot control you; living bright is more important than anything else.

人活着最大的乐趣，就是从痛苦中把快乐找出来。什么都追求好，是一种积极的思想，却不是最好的活法。你随和，生活才会随和。

The greatest pleasure of people living, is to find out the happiness from the pain. The pursuit of good everything, is a positive thought, but not the best way to live. You are easy-going, and your life will be easy-going.