别把自己的身体交给别人

每个人有每个人的生活方式，每个人有每个人的喜好。可生活中就是有些人喜欢拿自己的标准去评判别人，总觉得自己是对的。

Everyone has everyone's lifestyle, everyone has everyone's preferences. But in life, some people like to judge others by their own standards, and always feel that they are right。

现在的自己也会提醒自己不要成为这种人，因为自己也犯过这种错，也遇到过喜欢指手画脚的人。不拿自己的喜好去评判别人，每个人有每个人的选择，每个人都有各自的人生课题。

My current self will also remind myself not to become this kind of person, because I have also made this kind of mistake, and I have also met people who like to point fingers. Do not judge others by their own preferences, everyone has their own choices, everyone has their own life issues。

少关注别人，多关注自己。人各有命，别把自己的人生交给别人，掌握好自己的人生吧，走好自己的路才是关键。人与人之间的矛盾，很多时候就是从要求开始的，有了要求就会忘记了尊重。

Focus less on others and more on yourself. People have their own lives, don't give your life to others, master your own life, and take your own path is the key. Conflicts between people often start with requirements, and when there are requirements, respect is forgotten。