为什么人越长大，越喜欢沉默？

在网上看到一个问题：为什么人越长大，越喜欢沉默？

I saw a question on the Internet: Why do people like silence more when they grow up?

下面有一个回复让人印象深刻：因为有些人无话可说，有些话无人可说。

Here is an impressive reply: because some people have nothing to say, and others have nothing to say.

心酸总有千百种，沉默不语最难过。

There are always thousands of heartbreaks, and silence is the saddest.

其实，沉默代表的不是成年人的软弱与无奈，而恰恰是我们最坚强最有力量的一面。

In fact, silence is not the weakness and helplessness of adults, but the strongest and most powerful side of us.

有时候，沉默比掷地有声更有力。

Sometimes, silence is more powerful than sound.

年少时，不被理解和被误解时，第一反应就是急急忙忙地替自己解释。

When you are young and not understood or misunderstood, your first reaction is to explain for yourself in a hurry.

可很多时候解释不仅没有用，反而适得其反。

Many times, however, explanations are not only useless, but also counterproductive.

后来渐渐地才明白，不解释也是一种解释。

Later, I gradually realized that not explaining is also an explanation.

就像刘同在《你的孤独，虽败犹荣》中说的：解释有两种，一种是喋喋不休，一种是沉默不语。

Just as Liu Tongtong said in "Your Loneliness, Although Defeated, Is Still Glorious": There are two kinds of explanations, one is chattering, the other is silence.

前者令人厌恶，后者令人敬畏。

The former is disgusting, and the latter is awesome.

当从喋喋不休的解释，到不再用语言去解释，不将时间浪费在“解释”这件事上，而是选择做给对方看。

When we go from endless explanation to no longer using words to explain, we don't waste time on "explanation", but choose to show it to the other party.

与其费力解释，不如蓄力做事。

It is better to work hard than to explain.

做到没有错误，专业到无可挑剔。没有办法让人满意的，就尽力修炼自己，让自己强大到不活在他人的眼里，不活在自己的情绪里。

Be faultless and professional. If there is no way to satisfy others, try to cultivate yourself so that you can not live in the eyes of others and your emotions.

并不是所有的鱼都会生活在同一片海里，不是所有人都懂得我们迫切解释背后的心酸。

Not all fish will live in the same sea. Not all people understand the sadness behind our urgent explanation.

不信任自己的人，根本不会在意自己的想法；只看中结果的人，根本不会关心自己的努力。

People who do not trust themselves will not care about their own ideas; People who only care about the results will not care about their efforts at all.

把精力和时间放在重要的事情上，别让他人成为你生命中的优先，与其花精力解释，不如花时间成长。

Put energy and time on important things. Don't let others become your priority in life. It's better to spend time on growth than to spend energy on explanation.

沉默不语，就是最好的解释，也是对恶意最好的反击。

Silence is the best explanation and the best counterattack against malice.

也有人说：“人，不在沉默中爆发，就在沉默中更加沉默。”

Others said, "If people don't break out in silence, they will be more silent in silence."

用错沉默，沉默便成了一种软弱，越沉默越难过；用对沉默，沉默就是一种力量，越沉默越强大。

Use the wrong silence, silence will become a kind of weakness, the more silent the more sad; With silence, silence is a kind of power. The more silent, the stronger.

人生纵有千种苦，只要自己依然有向前走的力气，那些“杀”不死自己的，终将会让自己变得更强大。

Although there are thousands of hardships in life, as long as you still have the strength to move forward, those who "kill" themselves will eventually make themselves stronger.

“在阳光下活得像个小孩，风雨中活得像大人。越痛越不动声色，越苦越保持沉默。即使生活再苦，也能活出你的态度，即使日子再累，也能活出你的幸福。”

"Live like a child in the sun, live like an adult in the wind and rain. The more painful the more silent, the more bitter the more silent. Even if life is hard, you can live your attitude, even if the day is tired, you can live your happiness."