人生有三种选择

人生有三种选择：你可以参与、旁观、或放弃。 In life, you have 3 choices, to be a participant, a bystander, or a deserter.

参与就是要入世，既然来人世一回，要让世界因为曾经有过你我而更好。参与就是要活在当下，积极做好自己，凡事尽力而为，活出自己的价值和意义。参与就是要付出和给予，不只为自己而活，也为他人而活。参与就是要和他人建立连接和深耕关系。

旁观者只是人生中看热闹的旁人，因为自己不能或不想去参与其中。旁观者没有足够的勇气和信心去尝试和冒险。旁观者就像看电视、看电影、看手机、看小说等被动体验者，所看到的悲欢离合，阴晴圆缺都是他人或者想象中的人生故事。

To participate is to give it all you can so that the world could be better because of your existence. To participate is to live the moment, so you can do your best to make life valuable and meaningful. To participate is to give and live for others, not just for yourself. To participate is to establish connections and deepen relationships with others.

The bystanders just watch life goes by, as they cannot or would not participate. The bystanders lack courage and confidence to try new things. Through watching TV or a movie, browsing the mobile phone, reading a novel, and other passive life experience, the bystanders can only see other people's or imaginary life stories.

有朝一日，旁观者会突然觉醒。毕竟世界终究是自己的世界。与其当他人的观众，不如自己也演绎自己的人生。从此，旁观者变成了参与者。当然，有时也会有些参与者累了、伤了、病了，就变成了临时的旁观者，需要一边休整，一边伺机再动。

而当逃兵和投降没什么两样。当你选择放弃，你就输了。无论什么时候，只要你没认输，你就还没输，就还有机会东山再起。

So one day, some bystanders would wake up when they see the world is theirs to live, turning themselves into participants from then on. Of course, once in a while, some participants may get tired, hurt, or sick, standing aside to be a temporary bystander while resting and waiting for the right opportunity to strike again.

And to be a deserter is no different from surrendering to life. When you give up, you are lost. But so long as you do not give up, you are not yet lost and there is always the chance to rise and win again.

明天太阳照常升起，明天对谁都是崭新的一天。明天的你有三个选择，你选择参与和坚持奋斗就有机会成为赢家的一天，选择躲平就只能当个旁观者，而选择弃权，人生就不再有意义。

每天的选择权都在你我手上，一起加油吧！

The Sun will rise again tomorrow, for tomorrow will be a new day for every one. You have 3 choices in life tomorrow. You choose to participate and fight, then you may win one day. You let it easy, you can just be a bystander. You give up, then life's meaning is lost. Every day we get to choose, so let us do our best!

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